Find YOUR Perfect Life Partner!

Articles By Sasha:

Serious Dating Tips for Long Term Relationships

You are interested in creating a relationship that will lead to a long-term commitment right? So in order to do that you must treat each date as an investment. While one “bad” date may not mess up a dedicated couple, more than one or two in a row can lead to all sorts of negative vibes – feelings that will not build anything in a relationship except a case for ending it. The following tips are designed to create a stable, comfortable, and strong relationship from the very first date.

Top Seven Relationship Traps

There you are, your first real date. The sparks were flying when you first met while walking your dogs,
but is it going to last? Or maybe its a few months down the road and things are going great but there is
the feeling that “something isn't quite right.” Or you are convinced that this “The One” but you want to
make it even better.

Will you ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after? Only time will tell there, but you can shift
the odds in your favor by not falling into any of the following traps. Always remember to be real
though.

Two Things You Must Know When Finding Your Life Partner

First Date Flutters

Imagine this for a moment, you have met this great potential life partner at your friend's BBQ the other day, you chatted for what seemed like a few minutes at the party and then noticed the whole afternoon had slipped by, the sparks were flying and now you have been invited to choose the activity for your first date! Do you know the best things to do and say to practically guarantee that there is another great date after the first one? No? Well read on...

In a study published in 2002, anthropologist Helen Fisher PhD of Rutgers University revealed that the feelings created by exercise, surprise and adrenaline are very similar to those that are produced when we fall in love. Use this to your advantage on your quest for a life partner by skipping the candlelight dinner and going skiing, roller-blading, or to a mildly scary movie or best of all, an extreme roller coaster. All these activities will get the blood flowing and stimulate the feel good neurotransmitter called dopamine.

Top 5 Mistakes When Attracting Your Perfect Life Partner

Lets face it if finding your perfect life partner was easy everyone would have done it. That being said, it is by no means out of the range of possible for anyone who is sufficiently motivated. Today we are going to look at some of the most serious mistakes you might be making when attracting or as I prefer, manifesting, you perfect life partner.

Mistake 1.

Trying too hard

This is a “no brainer” but you wouldn't believe how many questions I get from people struggling with this simple concepts of attraction. The key here is to relax. The more relaxed you are the deeper you will breathe and the more energy you will have and from those two actions the more charisma you will have. So for example, if you are fond of the library and you feel this would be a likely place to meet your soulmate; go volunteer there!

Gratitude & The Perfect Life Partner.

What does this simple word have to do with finding a perfect life partner? Think what you will, but I believe that it is an absolutely essential ingredient in the quest for a soul mate.

Why do I think that? Because when you plant deep roots of gratitude you will inevitably gain three essential qualities that will greatly assist your journey toward togetherness with a life partner.

Happy

It is through consistent appreciation of your life, no matter what it might look like to an outsider, that you send a powerful message to the universe that says, “I am ready for more. I have my life in order and am ready to take to the next level.” Look at it this way, if your friend is always stressed and complaining about how hard life is would you be likely to hand them more responsibility in the form of, say a job? No! You would look for someone who is happy and relaxed to invite onto your team. So being grateful shows others and yourself that you have your life handled and you are ready for the next challenge.

Three T Communication

When it comes to talking about feelings don't forget that everyone has them, only some don't feel comfortable sharing them. And, when it comes to men, just the thought of talking about “feelings” is enough to drive them to the remote control, the den or Moe's Tavern!

So, how do successful life partners communicate when it comes to the tender parts of our hearts we call feelings?

How do we break down the feeling barrier between men and women?

After reading hundreds of books, investing thousands on training and years of personal experience I have found that simply using what I call the Three T communication can dramatically improve the chances of a successful feelings communication.